You Got To Clean The Da Shit Out
The love of the Fathers is fading. Because the love of the Fathers is based off not holding the circle together. But we base love of serving money. This is a picture I made, and it is just one of the many spheres of life the Elders would shoot the shit about
Over dominos, beer, shit talkin’, and cigars
My great uncle Sank, and Great Uncle James had boys and kids, but they poured a lot into me as well.
I never understood then when he said the Kongo way is not to look at Marriage for love. That is a western concept that will fuck up the African mind state for generations to come; he said he if we keep basing our family units in the white man model.
He said there is no such thing as love in Marriage at all, especially in the beginning in the European model of courtship anybody can put on a good face for up two years at least. Flowers, romance, in the beginning, don't mean shit if you can’t or ain't goin’ keep dat jive goin’ on he would say.
Love comes to ya whole lot later you can love da God in somebody instantly, but lovin’ somebody through the thick shit in da hog maws you got to form an ally. Love was and is bout a community alliance, not that white man you make my heart skip a beat.
Love is a process like cleanin’ dem hog maws your Grandma doing over there. You got to thaw it out see if this good for the community. After it's thawed out, you can tell if it's good to start putting work in to clean it. Cause all human beings got shit that needs to be cleaned out.
Then comes the cleaning process where you get the shit out that would harm your community and growth. Pluck out them little fine hairs that nobody can see, but you see cause you up on dem hog maws doin’ da cleanin’ just like the relationship you up close on day nigga up on da women ass now you see the shit dat need to be cleaned and snatched.
Marriage is about alliance helping each other clean your shit out to grow better for yourself, for your community, your children that help each other and helps oneself.
The fatherhood of men must come together to keep love secure, women do that naturally, but men we must stand firm to keep the tribe focused on the community and not his dick.
Then unclehood is a Kongo way cause when the men couldn't do fatherhood for community and live for love for the alliance beyond that honeymoon phase that's when the uncles step in.
See your kids don't belong to you
Your Marriage doesn't just belong to you
It belongs to the community of fathers, mothers, uncles, fatherhood groups, and unclehood groups. And if nobody steps in to truly help your love, Marriage, children, the family unit you are not living or working with a Kongo alliance.
If you are serving only for the money, you are not living in the alliance of the Kongo. You are living in each one help themselves unit, and that is not what spirituality is about not just African spirituality. Spiritual growth is Marriage in many aspects.
Whether it’s a relationship, a community, whatever Marriage you are stepping into now that Marriage and coming together is beyond the love that loves comes and grows to you from the thawing, cleaning, plucking, soaking, seasoning, marinating then the cooking of hog maws. See they are cooking love with community, alliance, or the steps that why it tastes like shit. Just like hog maws that ain't been done right.
Uncle Sank Wisdom
Gone but Never Forgotten
Here is to those that are for alliance and not that shitty illusion of what the white man told you love is.
Can't nobody be nobody peace without the right cooking and cleaning process of your own Hog Maws ~ Geechee Wisdom
As would say to me when I visit: look bout discern dis farm and these here animals it will show you more than you need to live in da city.
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